Well the first post Dear John meeting took place.
Incredible!
You’d have thought that this was a take over bid, or announcement of job cuts, rather than a person who’d been married for 5 years, shared life changing adventures, exotic moments, deep feelings of love and affection and what should have been a commitment to a future.
Not one good instance was mentioned. Negativity oozed from every pore and looks that would dissolve even the most optimistic and resolute of partners were glanced.
Incredible!
No debate about it. No second chances, no compromise, no arbitration, no explanation, “This is my decision, you live with it”.
There’s still something amiss about this decision and the outcome. Still something more deep rooted and unsaid. Maybe.